Friday, March 6, 2020
Bad Boss Sooner or Later We All Have Them - Introvert Whisperer
Introvert Whisperer / Bad Boss â" Sooner or Later We All Have Them - Introvert Whisperer Bad Boss â" Sooner or Later We All Have Them Iâll admit right up front: Iâm here to ask you to share any Bad Boss stories you might have. Iâve heard several and have had my own. In my case, my first Bad Boss happened early. In fact, it was the second job I held while in high school. The place I worked was the best fabric store in my city. As a seamstress myself, getting a job there seemed like nirvana â" until I actually worked there. The woman who owned the store apparently was legendary throughout the city as being a Bad Boss. In fact, I think the term for her was an âOld Battle Ax.â As part of my training, she lectured me on how I was there to do two things: sell her merchandise, and make the store attractive so people would want to buy her merchandise. The rules were: Never speak to other employees If I had a question, she was the only one qualified to answer If she was absent, there were only 2 people I could seek out for answers. I obediently complied. In my year there, I learned to âfly under the radar.â You didnât want her to notice you â" ever. I had seen a person quit after being there for only an hour. I had seen her torment a fellow employee, a woman my motherâs age, to the point that the woman was crying, as she was measuring out fabric for a customer. The Bad Boss stood there, spitting in my co-workers face, yelling at the top of her lungs all while the customer (who was cringing and cowering herself) had to watch. That was only one episode in a job that witnessed daily doses of outrageous behavior from the boss. I had my own encounter with her. One evening as she entered the store, she saw me speaking with a customer. She thought I was speaking with another employee â" a breach of a cardinal rule in her mind. A few minutes later, after she had dropped off her stuff and the customer left, she approached me yelling and shaking her fist. I had no idea what had set her off, so I asked. It infuriated her more. I explained I was talking to a customer, which made her even angrier. She yelled âDo you think Iâm stupid?â Well, I answered her: âNo, I just think you are mistaken.â She was stunned to silence, which I took as a sign the conversation was finished â" but apparently it wasnât. I had started to walk away when she grabbed me from behind, spun me around and began a high-pitched tirade. When she finally stopped long enough to suck in air, I brushed her hands off and told her âYou donât have permission to touch me or yell at me. I work hard for you but I draw the line there.â I walked away but this time, dead silence. She didnât fire me and we kept a polite distance until I went away to college. Meanwhile, she kept doing what had made her my townâs worst boss. So there you go. Thatâs my first Bad Boss. I have more stories, but Iâd like to hear yours. Either post yours below. Image: Photobucket Go to top Power-Influence-Office Politics: it comes down to your Strategic Relationships and understanding of how you build each one of these elements. I want to help you accelerate your career by connecting you with your Free Instant Access to my video that outlines all of this and meaningful actions you can take today! Start watching now: CLICK HERE Brought to you by Dorothy Tannahill-Moran â" dedicated to unleash your professional potential.
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